This week has been full of work and romance. — I caught up with an old friend, I guess you can say we really reconciled. Sometimes you forget what it is to miss people from your life, you forget the chemistry you may have had or the conversation. Of course, sometimes friendships are lost, but sometimes they can change and become clearer. I’m happy to be exercising boundaries in my life that I feel allow me to have healthier relationships with all those around me. It’s simple as people respecting your wishes on how you expect them to address you or they don’t. When they don’t, it’s simply up to you to present that boundary line as a reminder of your lines and when they are crossed. That was and still at times used to be a difficult concept for me to understand. I was very all or nothing, very black or white! When the reality is life is but a shade of gray and when we limit our options in that way we limit our choice. Everything is a choice a declaration so to speak on how we choose to go about things. Idk .. Hmm .. These are my thoughts ..